for help. >> it's us helping each other. >> reporter: vines invited us to meet some she met through a non-profit organization she started called family of a vet, which provides education and resources to care givers. kat cares for her husband, who was injured in iraq in 2006. >> i had to pull the gun out of my husband's mouth. and for two years now, he has blamed me every single day for saving his life. >> reporter: through their shared struggles, these women are helping each other cope. where do you go from here? >> we keep going. you know, it's all about learning new ways to handle it and figuring out how to stay together as a family. >> reporter: for these military families, the road to recovery is taking it one day at a time. michelle miller, cbs news, daphne, alabama. >>> coming up after your local news on "cbs this morning," the new allegations involving general john allen. david martin will have the latest from the pentagon. plus, congressional leaders harry reid and mitch mcconnell discuss the chances of compromise over the fiscal cliff. oliver stone tells us about his new doc